Empowering Single Mothers: Co-Parenting and Self-Love
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Solo Shift Podcast with Wedeh Guar
What does it really take to heal, thrive, and expand as a single mother? In this powerful and deeply honest episode of the Solo Shift Podcast, host Weddy sits down with Energy Expansion Coach and Akashic Records Reader Kanika Vasudeva to explore co-parenting, self-worth, money beliefs, and radical self-love through lived experience.
Kanika shares her journey as a single mother navigating a toxic marriage, separation, and the long road toward peaceful co-parenting. She explains how children become mirrors for healing, why guilt is one of the biggest blocks mothers carry, and how choosing your own happiness gives your child permission to do the same. Through personal stories, including a life-threatening accident involving her son, Kanika shows how trust, reframing, and inner work can transform co-parenting into a source of safety and support rather than conflict.
Together, Weddy and Kanika also dive into money, identity, and self-belief for single mothers. They explore why women often undervalue themselves, how subconscious sabotage shows up in income and relationships, and why learning to love and invest in yourself is the foundation for stability, confidence, and expansion. This episode is a reminder that healing does not require perfection—only willingness, courage, and compassion for yourself.
What You’ll Learn
Why children play a powerful role in a mother’s healing journey
How to reframe guilt around separation and co-parenting
Why staying together in disharmony can be more harmful than separating
How to create peaceful, respectful co-parenting through boundaries and trust
Why seeing the good in your co-parent changes everything for your child
How single mothers subconsciously block money and success
The connection between self-worth, pricing, and financial stability
Why women dim their light in relationships and how to stop
How to build support systems without guilt or dependency
Why loving yourself fully transforms parenting, money, and relationships
Episode Timestamps
00:00 Introduction and motherhood as healing
Kanika shares how becoming a mother triggered deep healing and self-awareness.
08:20 The beauty and challenge of co-parenting
How shared parenting created space for presence, rest, and personal growth.
16:10 Leaving a toxic marriage
Kanika explains why separation was necessary for emotional safety and clarity.
24:30 Facing fear and inner work
Why healing required looking at her own patterns instead of blaming others.
33:10 Reframing the co-parent relationship
How focusing on her ex as a good father changed co-parenting dynamics.
41:00 Trust during crisis
A powerful story of relying on her co-parent during her son’s life-threatening accident.
49:20 Guilt and breaking the “broken home” belief
Why children feel safer when parents choose authenticity and peace.
57:30 Co-parenting as a business relationship
Keeping communication focused on the child instead of unresolved adult conflict.
01:05:10 Creating fair systems and agreements
Why starting with cooperation matters more than legal battles.
01:13:40 Money fears for single mothers
How “I am not enough” blocks income and confidence.
01:22:20 Women, self-worth, and earning
Why women undervalue themselves more than men and how to shift it.
01:30:50 Subconscious self-sabotage in relationships
How success and love can feel unsafe at the same time.
01:39:30 Identity, magnetism, and self-belief
Why peeling away unworthiness reveals your true power.
01:48:10 Rewriting money and love beliefs
How reframing the past helps justify future expansion.
01:56:40 Learning to receive support
Building systems for help without sacrificing independence.
02:05:20 Self-love as daily practice
Why celebrating yourself at every stage creates confidence and joy.
02:14:30 Closing empowerment message
A reminder that believing in yourself changes everything.
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